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Sebastian — Programmer in Stardew Valley
Birthday Winter 10
Lives in Pelican Town
Home Mountain (Robin's house)
Marriage Yes — romance available
Family Robin (mother), Maru (stepsister), Demetrius (stepfather)
Marriage candidate

Sebastian

Programmer

Lives in the basement, codes by night, and rides his motorcycle when the coast is clear. Responds well to patience and thoughtful gifts.

Robin’s introverted stepson who works from home and escapes on his motorcycle. Warmer than he first appears — if you meet him on his schedule.

Explore this villager

Gift ideas, a typical day in town, and heart events — curated for cozy friendship, not wiki overload.

Gift ideas

Two gifts per week (plus one on their birthday) move friendship up or down. Birthday gifts count extra — these are the standouts, not every item in the game.

Loves

  • Frozen Tear · +80 friendship

    Gem or mineral

  • Obsidian · +80 friendship

    Gift item

  • Pumpkin Soup · +80 friendship

    Cooked dish

  • Sashimi · +80 friendship

    Gift item

  • Void Egg · +80 friendship

    Gift item

  • Stardrop Tea · +80 friendship

    Special item

Likes

  • Quartz · +45 friendship

    Gem or mineral

  • Green Frog Egg · +45 friendship

    Gift item

  • Frog Egg · +45 friendship

    Gift item

Dislikes

  • Clay · −20 friendship

    Material

  • Holly · −20 friendship

    Foraged

Hates

  • Chanterelle · −40 friendship

    Gift item

  • Common Mushroom · −40 friendship

    Foraged

Typical day

A simplified rhythm for finding them in town — weather and festivals can shuffle things around.

WhenWhere
10:00 AM – 6:00 PM · Regular dayBasement desk → lake (smoking) → home
All day · Rainy dayBasement (coding or games)
Evening · FridayStardrop Saloon with Sam

Relationships

  • Sam & Abigail

    His closest friends — band practice and arcade nights.

  • Maru & Demetrius

    Home life is tense; he keeps to the basement to avoid friction.

Trivia

  • Sashimi is loved and only needs any fish — Linus mails you the recipe at 3 hearts.

Heart events

Friendship cutscenes at key heart levels — summaries only, so you can discover the scenes in-game.

  1. 2 hearts

    Garage hangout

    Find him in Robin’s garage with Sam — stay for awkward small talk.

  2. 4 hearts

    Board game night

    Rainy-day invite to play Solarion Chronicles in his room.

  3. 6 hearts

    Pool at the lake

    He opens up about feeling like an outsider in his own family.

  4. 8 hearts

    Motorcycle ride

    He offers a night ride and asks if you want to leave town together someday.

  5. 10 hearts

    Obsidian gift

    Bring obsidian to the mountain after dark for a quiet confession and kiss.

  6. 14 hearts

    Frog encounter

    A rainy-day cutscene on the farm ties back to his love of frogs.

Reference notes from Stardew Valley Wiki .